You mentioned in interviews that opening your heart back up to dating men kind of coincided with your sobriety. But I don’t get married so that I can compete with somebody. I am somebody that makes decisions like that, and if you don’t like me because of that, then that’s fine. I wanted to marry Dusty the first time I met him, and I am an impulsive person, and I am somebody that follows my heart. No, that one I will say, “no.” And I didn’t get married to compete with anybody. I know you are restricted in what you can say but I want to be clear that you’ve said you did not get married the same weekend as Sara and Whitney. And a very big relationship in my life, and I think that she showed a lot of strength on her end. No, we don’t, but I love her, and I’ll always love her. When she asked me if I had feelings for him, and if I could stop flirting with him, I was honest, and I couldn’t. I think that anybody who’s in a relationship with another person who is falling for someone else, or going in another direction, you have to take care of yourself, and you have to remove yourself from that. I think that she is very smart and got grown up, and I think that she took care of herself. That was not just the first time we got back together after first season. Kelsey and I have been together a lot longer, and gone through a lot more breakups than the world has ever seen. Have I bounced from one person and have I searched and dated a few people – three of them in the last year – that’s true, but it’s also been in the last year.ĭid Kelsey actually dump you because she felt your energy with Dusty? People have ripped me apart as a cheater, and that is all television. I never overlapped and was always honest, and there was space in between each person. I can say this – and this is a fact no matter what the show has shown – I did not cheat on anybody on this season. I’m taking attacks on things that did not happen timing wise and I am not allowed to honestly defend myself. I have to say this, and people must know, I am actually heavily under contract to what I can even defend myself in. There were a few things that happened on the show that seemed conveniently timed, including your break up with Jay and getting back together with Kelsey. I’ve really protected myself in the last year with the people that are my friends and the people that I let into my life romantically. Why I’ve run backwards (dating exes)? I don’t know, but I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that in the last few years just being in the media – and I’m not claiming to be any kind of celebrity or anything like that – just being out there, it isn’t easy to just go out there and meet people who maybe are in it for the wrong reasons. I’m very open about my life and my story and my struggles. I’m not claiming that I don’t have my own set of issues like each person, but based on who I date and their sex, that’s not the issue. Yeah, that’s probably something I should be looking at and talking about more than what sex they are to be honest with you. I chose to open myself up and be honest because I thought that, in the end, it's what would help people more than me just bullshitting through a season. If I wanted to better my career I would’ve lied through my teeth all season and I would’ve just had a girlfriend, called it a day and lived my life privately. Everyone said that I was trying to better my career. They called and said, “Where you at?” I was honest. I was invited back second season, and I was invited back third season. I happened to be on it because of Whitney’s little love mix her first season. I’ve never auditioned or put myself out there to be on the show. You recently did an interview with Ilene Chaiken and you said you thought Showtime wouldn’t have you back because you were with a man at the time. You’re asking me to support your rights, and you’re just calling my husband pretty much every awful gay name you can think of? None of it makes any sense to me. I’ve got people that are writing and saying that my husband looks gay, and I’m a lesbian. Where is the support that you put the B in the LGBT? Where is that if you’re going to claim it, and you’re going to put it in there, and you’re going to say we’re one family? Is that only if I’m a woman and dating women and calling myself bi? What if I’m a woman that’s dating a man and calling myself bi? I mean, am I not welcome? I think it’s very conditional. But I was really, really surprised at how bad it is and how much there isn’t a place for the bisexuals. I knew going into this that I was going to get it, and I had heard of biphobia, you know, and obviously didn’t really understand it that much because I was so involved in the lesbian community. You’ve been called out for essentially accusing lesbians of being biphobic…
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